Are stereotypes real or imagined?

Stereotypes are viewed by society at large as narrow minded bigotry. Well, if that is so, how do they survive? Do we consider the origins of these stereotypes? Are they well founded or merely generalizations with no basis in history or reality? Here's a quick stereotyping quiz for you:

1) Think of a common stereotype.
2) Is it a positive or negative attribute?
3) Have you ever seen an actual personification of this stereotype?

Where stereotypes are problematic is that the individuals on the receiving end of stereotyping often rely on the argument that, "not all follow that stereotype." While it's hard to argue with that response, it does not invalidate the stereotype. I argue that stereotyping exists because groups of people DO exhibit those characteristics on a grand scale even though not all members of those groups exhibit those characteristics. More so, stereotypes that portray groups in a positive light are not perceived as generalizations, but as traits.

For instance, Asians are often characterized as hard working, disciplined, and strong in areas of math and science. While not all Asians necessarily fall into it, this stereotype certainly exists because many Asians do exhibit these very positive traits. It seems to me that if I were accused of being a hard working, disciplined, math whiz, I'd feel rather complimented. However, Asians are also characterized as having small genitals, being poor drivers, and being anti-black. Once again, I would argue that, while not ALL Asians do, many Asians personify these stereotypes. Is the issue of stereotypes a matter of recognizing reality or keeping the politically correct blinders on?

We recognize these stereotypes from our own personal experiences. I have encountered Black people that have a strong relationship with God, but can't hold a job. I have encountered Gay men that have great fashion sense, but act in an extremely feminine manner. I have encountered Latinos that have an extreme sense of family loyalty, but drive crappy vans. I have encountered White men that can write intelligently, but cling to rash generalizations and stereotypes.

The point is, stereotypes exists because they are grounded in reality. Like them or not, they are there. We should embrace them, not ignore them. If you (as a people) find the stereotype to be negative, work to change it. If you, instead, feel that the generalization is a beneficial "trait", then encourage the positive behavior in yourself and others in your group. To just ignore or deny a stereotype is to ignore or deny the experience of others around you.